At the end of evening meals in The Giver, each family member is expected to express their feelings and thoughts about what happened that day. When viewed in a positive way, this gives each community member a chance to talk about their day. It is a time to hear about what is going on with the family and talk about their own experiences. When seen in a more negative light, this sharing can be seen as a way for parents to "spy" on their children. Having children share every thought they have gives parents the chance to learn about anything that may be concerning to the parents or the Elders. Jonas, Lily and their parents all share apprehensions or negative feelings during this time. This can be seen as both a way to bring the family closer and as a way for the Elders and parents to have control over members of the community.
In The Giver, families must follow certain rules and rituals. As an example, each night after dinner, Jonas and his family must participate in the "evening telling of feelings." Each family member takes a turn where he or she must use precise language to communicate thoughts and feelings. Other family members attempt to offer help or advice. In chapter 1, Lily is the first to share her feelings about her day. She describes her feelings of anger when a boy from another community doesn't follow the rules. Jonas's father is next, and he shares his concern about a "newchild." Next is Jonas's mother who describes her feelings in dealing with a repeat offender at the Department of Justice. Finally, Jonas shares that he is "apprehensive" regarding his upcoming Ceremony of Twelve.
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